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Sex after Divorce: Waiting till the time is right can help you find a good guy!

This is my response to Juliet Jeske’s Huffington Post article about Dating after Divorce.  She was saying there  are so many women who are willing to have sex right away, that women who want to wait don’t stand a chance.

In the video, I talk about:

  • Most women can’t have sex without wanting some sort of connection or commitment
  • The women who have sex right away may get the guys for now
  • But will those guys really stick around?
  • And do you really want those guys anyway?
  • Men like to pursue.  So, if you take care of yourself and go slow, you probably won’t lose them.  They will actually value you more.
  • If you wait till the time is right, it can actually help you find  a quality guy!

I’d love to hear your thoughts about the video, sex and dating, or  anything else you’d care to share!  Just  click below to share your Comments!


p.s. The Huffington post author, Juliet Jeske commented on my YouTube video! Check it out. :)

Vonda (“Vondie”) Lozano, Ph.D., is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Hypnotherapist. She’s been featured in Cosmopolitan, the Wall Street Journal and on KABC Talk Radio. Vondie offers hypnosis, counseling, and workshops in Ventura. Nearby cities include Camarillo, Ojai and Oxnard.

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  • Frank

    Liked this allot….you should do more of this short stuff as reminders to your followers…well done….and Henry’s a great camera man!

  • Vondie

    Thanks Frank!
    Vondie :)

  • Richard

    Hi Vondie, this is Richard. I saw your video and I thought it was very good. im glad you are making a difference in peoples lives who want to date even if divorced or not. I think many women need some advice in this area because men put alot of pressure on women wanting sex. My opinion is that if a man really desires something true that is long lasting from a woman, he should hold back messeges to her about sex. I believe this is curtious and the right thing to do. Its obvious that pretty much all us men want sex right away, but its more valuable to get a chance to discover that wonderful and perfect woman who may be the right one and we both win! Good luck!! and God bless you and your work

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