Relationship Therapy
- Do you wish you had someone good to share your life with?
- Are your relationships not working out like you hoped?
- Or is it scary to think about really giving your heart to someone?
It’s easy to feel like everyone else has someone to love, except you. You may feel lonely or left out. Your heart longs for someone good, but somehow you always end up getting hurt.
Or maybe you wonder if a relationship is even worth it. You’ve never known anyone with the kind of relationship you would want. So it’s hard to believe that even exists. Or maybe it’s hard to imagine that you could find someone you would really want, who would really want you.
I understand. I’ve been there. I used to wonder how people found a good partner. And when I would meet someone who might be a good fit I would feel insecure and not good-enough. Plus, I didn’t see a good marriage growing up. So I never learned how to be close to someone else … or at least not that close.
But, after my divorce, I knew I had to do something different and I did! I healed those old family patterns that were sabotaging my relationship journey. And I developed healthier dating strategies to find the kind of man I really wanted. And it worked! I found someone good and that’s why I love helping you.
Together, we can explore what’s keeping you from love. And you can discover how to attract someone good who can give you the love and closeness you’ve been waiting for.
We can look at your dating patterns and how to pace your relationships so you really get to know someone before you give them your heart. You learn to trust a little at a time and then to trust more as they earn your trust. But mostly you learn to trust yourself.
You’ll begin to recognize red flags. You’ll relearn how to trust gut when something feels off or wrong. Your instincts are never wrong. But if you grew up in a family where it wasn’t safe, you may have shut down your feelings and instincts in order to survive. But, you can begin to feel your feelings and trust your instincts again.
When someone comes on too strong that’s a red flag. But when you build the relationship slowly, you really get to know them for who they are, not who they appear to be. Then you can weed out men who wouldn’t be right for you. And you can develop a good foundation with someone who is right for you — someone you can trust, someone who wants to build a life with you, someone you can laugh and have fun with, someone who really loves you.
We can also explore your feelings as you experience this new kind of closeness. It may feel weird at first to let someone really get to know you. But when you build those bonds of trust slowly and you really get to know each other, you discover that it feels good to be loved and accepted for who you really are.
If you’d like to find out how you can have that kind of relationship, I’d love to hear from you.
It’s never too late to find love.
If you’d like to have a good, loving relationship, I’d love to hear from you – Vondie